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Get free faster from your patterns, and have fun while you’re doing it.
June 12, 2026 | VIP Dinner will be hosted the evening of June 11.
At the Relational Intelligence Summit, hosted by Dr. Kelly Flanagan, Stefanos Sifandos, and Joshua Wenner, you will learn body-based tools to stop reactivity in its tracks and build a calmer, more connected way of being together. Through guided breathwork and bodywork, you will regulate your nervous system, clear emotional blockages, and replace stuck loops with healthy habits.
You will practice alongside motivated couples who multiply the insight, all at the breathtaking 4U Ranch outside Park City, Utah. Walk away with skills to turn conflict into connection and a clear vision for openhearted collaboration. Join virtually or in person.
Choose the package that’s right for you and save your spot before they’re all sold out!
With your purchase, you’ll get copies of Dr. Kelly’s new book to share with your friends, family, church, organization, or business. But no worries, we’ll take care of all the shipping for you, free of additional charge!
Want to be at the Summit but your schedule can’t accommodate it? No problem. You can get a virtual ticket and watch it live from the comfort of home and/or watch it later with lifetime access to the replay.
What You'll Receive:
*Limited to 100 participants*
Are you ready to be one of the
thirty pairs of people in the room for this transformative all-day summit? Get a ticket for two and join us at the 4U Ranch!
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*Limited to 50 tickets*
Want to take your time at the Ranch to the next level? Gather around the dinner table with Dr. Kelly, Joshua Wenner, Stefanos Sifandos, and four other couples driven to become the best versions of themselves for an evening of connection and comfort.
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*Limited to 5 tickets*
Each Package also Includes:
An extra $500 value. Yours included when you buy one of the bundles above.
June 12, 2026 | VIP Dinner will be hosted the evening of June 11.
Platinum VIP Event at the Ranch House
9:30-10am - Registration
10am-12pm - Session I: Get Calm
12-1pm - Lunch Along the River
1-3pm - Session II: Get Free
3-5pm - Session III: Get Connected
5-6:30pm - Rest and Relax
6:30-8pm - Closing Cocktail Reception
The key to cultivating calmness in your most triggered moments
Freedom from the emotional and relational patterns that imprison you in that moment
A vision for openhearted collaboration, curiosity, and compassion in your relationships
When you are smart, driven, and still stuck in the same unsatisfying cycles, it is not a lack of insight. It’s your body in overdrive. The fight-or-flight response hijacks the moment and the distance grows. The Relational Intelligence Summit will show you how to change that in real time. Here’s what you can anticipate:
You’ll kick off and wrap up the day with world-class keynote presentations that will make you laugh, cry, and motivate you to walk the road less triggered with confidence and joy.
Learn body-based tools you can use in the moment, not just later. Our breathwork and bodywork guides will teach you to downshift your nervous system in minutes and dissolve the emotional tension behind reactivity. Leave with repeatable practices you can use at home.
You will be in a room of driven couples who want what you want. Small group practice and guided conversations turn shared insight into rapid progress. Expect support, accountability, and a community that keeps you moving.
The 4U Ranch sits in the Kamas Valley with a river running through the property. The event barn opens to the water, inviting you to breathe and reset while you learn. Nature helps calm your body and open your heart.
Arrive a night early for exclusive access to the Ranch House. Enjoy a private, chef-curated dinner and a mix of relaxed and guided conversations that prime you for breakthrough results the next day. Expect elevated hospitality, personal attention, and a few memorable surprises.
Dr. Kelly Flanagan is an author, speaker, personal and relationship coach, and licensed clinical psychologist with two decades of expertise in interpersonal relationships. His thought leadership has been featured in The 5 Love Languages, the TODAY Show, Reader’s Digest, HuffPost, and Success Magazine. Kelly’s two non-fiction books, Loveable and True Companions, debuted as #1 New Releases in Interpersonal Relations, and his national bestselling first novel, The Unhiding of Elijah Campbell, has earned multiple literary awards. Kelly is a sought-after international speaker who counts the Green Bay Packers amongst his audiences. His proprietary frameworks will take the connection in your relationships to levels that traditional communication strategies can’t touch.
Joshua Wenner is an entrepreneur, veteran, filmmaker, transformational coach and emotional resilience expert. He has spent the last 20 years growing companies and maximizing human potential—while affecting the lives of over 500,000 humans. He is the founder of Emotional Resilience Training (ERT) and co-founder of Valor Warrior Resiliency Programs. Joshua’s coaching, curriculum, and frameworks are being used to help CEO’s, entrepreneurs, high achievers, first responders, veterans, & those who deal with high stress and trauma. He teaches emotional resilience tools to help people navigate challenging situations and achieve meaningful results. He spent a decade interviewing grief and trauma experts as he documented his healing from the death of his brother and becoming a leader in the men’s work and resiliency fields in his first film The Gift of Grief.
Stefanos Sifandos is an internationally recognized author, educator, and relationship expert devoted to helping people live, love, and lead from a place of truth. For over two decades, he has guided thousands across the globe—from Olympic gold medalists and special forces soldiers to conscious entrepreneurs, couples, and everyday seekers—through the deep work of transformation.
With a background in behavioral science, philosophy, and human performance, Stefanos bridges grounded psychology with embodied spirituality. His teachings integrate the wisdom of both East and West, offering a path to wholeness that is as practical as it is profound. He helps people meet their edges with honesty, turn pain into power, and build relationships rooted in presence, courage, and depth.
His work isn’t about quick fixes or surface change—it’s about learning to feel fully, lead authentically, and stand unguarded in the truth of who you are. Through his programs, workshops, and his book Tuned In and Turned On, Stefanos invites men and women to transform the way they relate to themselves, to love, and to life itself.
“The Road Less Triggered is a compassionate, practical guide for noticing when our hearts begin to close…and gently finding our way back to openness. This book gave language to something I’ve long felt but struggled to name—and tools I’ll keep coming back to. If you’re serious about healing and living with more presence, peace, and love—start here.”
Coach at Rhapsody Strategies, co-host of the Living Richly Podcast, and creator of The Foundry.
“No one names the thing beneath the thing quite like Dr. Kelly Flanagan. In The Road to Less Triggered, he walks with us into the unseen terrains of our hearts, illuminating the hidden patterns that spark conflict and dim connection. Through his steady, peace-filled wisdom, he offers not quick fixes but practices that reshape us from the inside out. This is a book to savor, return to, and be changed by—again and again.”
Host, Good / True / & Beautiful Podcast
“James 1:19 tells us to “be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” In The Road Less Triggered, Dr. Flanagan gives us the path to living out this verse. This book is not another “conflict” book. Instead, Dr. Flanagan walks with us on a path to a deeper understanding of ourselves and why we do what we do, which will result in healthier, more compassionate relationships with our spouses.”
President, Awesome Marriage
“The Road Less Triggered is a gold mine of real-life insights and relatable examples for navigating our triggers. It’s a firm, humbling reminder that while it’s easy to blame the world around us, true peace comes only from looking inward.”
Founding Member, Judah & The Lion
“Kelly Flanagan has a gift for making the hard stuff feel doable. The Road Less Triggered doesn’t just explain why we get stuck in the same arguments—it shows us how to pause, stay open, and choose connection when it matters most. As a dad, this isn’t just personal growth—it’s about modeling calm and compassion so our kids grow up in homes that feel safe and connected. This is a book I’ll be handing to friends who want more peace and depth at home.”
Founder, Front Row Dads
“We know we need help. We lose our tempers. We snap at strangers and hurt the ones we love. And we keep doing the thing we do not want to do. With psychological depth and soulful storytelling, Kelly Flanagan’s The Road Less Triggered offers a path toward a gentler way of being in the world.”
Pastor, Author of Very Married and Love Letters to God
“In The Road Less Triggered, Dr. Kelly shines a light on the subtle moments that derail connection. His wisdom helps us pause, stay present, and choose love over defensiveness. This book will be a game-changer for your relationships.”
Co-founder, Gobundance
If you would prefer to have the full quantity shipped to you, Dr. Kelly’s assistant will confirm your preferred shipping address. If you would prefer to have us ship the books to each of your people, and include a personal note from you, free of charge, she’ll collect their names and addresses from you.
No, the Ranch is an event venue only. For high-end but affordable lodging close to the Ranch, we recommend Blackrock Mountain Resort. In addition, the Park City area has a range of attractive short-term rental options.
If you purchase the Gold package, your ticket to the live interactive replay of the Summit will be delivered straight to your inbox as soon as it becomes available. Rest assured, you’ll receive an email detailing all your bonuses immediately upon purchase, and the ticket will be sent as soon as it is ready.
The full membership tier is a new tier of membership to The Less Triggered Tribe that will be introduced in Spring 2026, shortly after the release of the book. This new tier will include access to Dr. Kelly’s brand-new online course, The Less Triggered Teachings, as well as exclusive quarterly trainings with Dr. Kelly. If you have purchased any bulk package, your membership to that tier will be immediately activated when it goes live, and you will receive an email notification of its availability.
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